I took my girls to Eurydices, the Opera. So many surprises.

I read Mary's latest larch haven post.  Immediately I want to post another myself.  She had mentioned on the phone that she wanted to keep it light.  Maybe a tone change for the most current post.  Then I wrote my draft of what I wanted to say in response, and I am going to kill that "keep it light" idea.  I sent this as an email directly to my siblings and said that I wouldn't post it.  Then they asked me to post it.  So I post it, revised.  Here is how the day at the Opera went with my little girls.

Larch Haven Post:  Eurydice

Eurydice’s is a Greek myth.  Orpheus loves and gets married to Eurydice’s.  Shortly, she dies.  Orpheus is always full of music and starts to play sad music.  He then travels to hell and convinces Hyades to release Euridice’s back to the land of the living.  Hades plays a trick though and makes it impossible for them to get out of the underworld.  "you may take your bride and leave, but never look behind you.  if you look behind to see her following, she will be sent back to me and the underworld".

I’m not sure who to thank, but someone told us about Jim Hensons “Greek Myths”.  One of the myths is of Orpheus and Eurydice.  So my children have listened to this particular Greek myth several times.  It is very approachable when watching Jim Hensons version.  If you have "Prime" as a streaming service you can go watch it right away.  It's on prime.

 

It turns out, Live at the Met has begun!  I got a notice that “Eurydice” was now playing Saturday Dec 4, 11am.  Well, that might be similar to the Jim Hensons version.  So Lets do it! 

I had planned for Michael and I to go.  I had talked with Miranda and even reached out to Lurene to see if she’d want to bring kids along.  The Met Live version was going to be a ‘modern’ opera version.  So that might be a little heavy for the younger kids but I think Michael and I would be a good try.

Things changed, life tells you what will work, and so I could not bring Michael.  I had offered to Alice though.  I was sick and a bit run down so at the last hour I started backing away.  It’ll play again next weekend I told myself.  But in an unusual turn of events Alice started presenting that she was very grieved to not go. 

A three hour opera, and both girls were eager to go?  You can’t ask for the desire or willingness to go.  So despite being exhausted and sick I said, we’re going. 

As you’d expect, there are things about this Met Live trip that I can lament and wax about.  We were the three of 80 people who were not senior citizens.  We were talked to by those behind us during intermission.  There were a few parts of this event that make my heart ache.  But we wont talk about that, you and I.

So onto the best parts of this adventure. 

1.       Three hours, and we made it through.  Despite our friends behind us labelling it a “very heavy, modern opera”.  The older ladies behind asked "how can you keep your kids interested in such a long and heavy opera".  And of course, by the skin of my teeth is how I did it.  Jiggles and rolling, and standing, and kicking chairs in front of us.  How did I do it?  Well, in truth i didn't do that well.  I offered to let us leave after intermission, but I was TOLD by Alice that we’d be staying for the whole performance.

2.       The three stone people that were part of the underworld had a hilarious part where they became sad because of Eurydice and began to cry.  They had handfuls of pebbles and began to rub their eyes and drop stones here and there onto the ground.  It was an adorable effect.  If you ask the kids what they're favorite part of the opera is... they will say that it was the crying stones.  Here is an image of the stone people.

3.       In this presentation Eurydice’s father has already died, and she meets him in the underworld.  She has passed through the river styx and so has no memory.  She does not remember him, but in order to bring her memory back he refers to himself as her ‘tree’.  Where she leaned, and enjoyed shade, and spent time.  Then he says, “do you remember how much you used to love to read”.  A book gets hung down from the rafters.  That part was wrenching for me personally… that was the part where I wept uncontrollably but under my breath.

4.       Having the older ladies behind us reach out and talk to us during intermission was fun as well.  They said that we should come next week to the “magic flute” which is much lighter and easier for kids.  It was a bit hard to talk to women in their 70’s / 80’s.  Ones that I’ve never met.  So I try to be cordial, and pleasant, but of course they are reminding me too much of other older women that I yearn for.  Of course I mean Wyona, Moiya, and Arta.

5.       60$ was painful, but three hours of entertainment for the three of us.  So that’s got to be more like $6/hr of entertainment.  NOT BAD!  For such amazing costumes, and a theatre that I’ll never get to in person.  It truly is a miracle that we can go.

 

I do, of course, reflect on the fact that I don’t think that I’d be taking my children to such rich cultural events if I didn’t have the life that I’d lived.  I was going to the theatre for so many years.  I find it an honor to be able to do this for the younger generation. 

 It might sound stupid, but I can imagine myself in a scarf and huge ear rings and a white hair extension as I bring them into the cinema.  I have too many rings on my fingers and I’m walking slowly into and out of the theatre with tiny little things that are the most important thing in this world.  It might be a stretch.... but I do love the idea that I am the vessel that continues the hard work.  I am joyful proud to imagine myself in those earrings.