I woke up this morning unable to sleep so I came to LarchHaven Blogspot to look up memories. So nice to see Arta's legacy, keeping her memories and love for writing alive. Arta had a very special relationship with her father, Doral. I went back to read Arta's Memory #40 about Doral.
Each of us will have very different memories of our lives with Doral. We are here on earth because he fell in love with Wyora and the story goes on. Now that I am nearing my 80th year, I know that I am more crotchety and cranky than I was a few years ago and yet I am far more accepting of peoples differences; differences that make us richer for understanding another persons point of view.
And at the end, photos of Doral's Scrapbook which he made in the 1920's, 30's, and 40's.
Eighty Memories for Eighty Years: #40 On Burying my Father
Doral William Pilling January 6, 1906 - December 24, 1982 |
For me, that death is a list of saying good-byes.
Good-bye to the games he played with me.
Good-bye to the gallons of milk he delivered to me.
Good-bye to my model of intellectual curiosity.
Good-bye to the place where I could ask the deepest questions of my heart.
Good-bye to watching his quiet acts of generosity.
Good-bye to a gamer who played by gentleman’s rules.
Good-bye to his spontaneous (seemingly) practical jokes.
Good-bye to the man whose role as a father moved into a deep friendship with me: friend to friend. Arta The End...as Arta would have said.
The following are close ups of the article.
How fun to read this. I'm waiting outside a child's 'activity' but I'll read it and really digest those photos when I get home.
ReplyDeleteThank you Wyona. I'm gonna enjoy zooming in on each of these close ups. As for me, I'm still having a hard time with goodbyes. They really suck.
ReplyDeletewhat a blast! the cartoon/comic style is freakin' awesome!
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