I am sharing this post on behalf of Gillian Calder, a long time colleague of Arta's daughter Rebecca, but more importantly a long time friend of Rebecca and Arta's.
Gillian Shares:
11. Unrelenting Joy of Learning
If I may, I wanted to jump into the 80 amazing posts about Arta, and write a little something about her unrelenting joy in learning. As I write the sentence I can imagine taking that in many different directions: what she shares when people are around her (like baking); or travels I have heard about (like cruises), or the various forms of art she has introduced to her families (musicals and galleries), or the way she has been a presence at the law school in classes, for years. Each worthy of a post.
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| Arta and Rebecca |
What I wanted to share was the time that I hosted a workshop at UVic’s law school on polygamy, at a time when the question “what is inherently wrong with polygamy” had yet been posed to the BC Supreme Court in a reference. And so we gathered a host of scholars, from across Canada, the US and Australia, in a realm of disciplines, and had a conversation that went on for several days – with both Rebecca and Arta as part of that team.
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| Gillian and Lori's Book: Polygamy's Right and Wrongs |
After the workshop, we decided to pull the presentations together into a book, and with only the most gentle of asks, convinced Arta to write a chapter. And when it was published, we put her chapter at the heart of the book. And in doing so, we also put care, belonging and community at the core of the manuscript; love turned out to be the animating force of the project.
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| Arta's Chapter: Are They Not Us? |
In the chapter Arta authored she is achingly personal, and doesn’t shy away from the big questions that polygamy poses for a Mormon family. And, yet like Arta herself, her chapter remains gracious, while still being curious, and at moments, a teensy bit naughty. It puts family, faith and feminism, squarely in the mix, while still allowing the reader a hint into an unexplored world.
12. Face Discomfort Head On with Great Research
Gillian shares:
I am grateful that in one of the first big academic projects that I had carriage of, as nerve-wracking as that can be, that Arta agreed to tell and share a story. I also feel lucky that Uumati (my 19 year old) and I have been some of the people in Arta’s orbit, welcomed to the lake, where we were put to work, to bake, or read, or play. And I so appreciate all of the times she sends an email after a conversation to ask one more question, or share a reflection on what it had made her think about. Sometimes we academics are a bit complainy. Being around Arta is such a good reminder of what an unrelenting joy in learning feels like, and what it can and should be.
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| Gillian and Uumati |
Sent from the traditional territories of the Songhees, Esquimalt and WSÁNEĆ peoples.
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Tonia Adds:
Thank you Gillian for your beautiful words, incredible research, and being a part of our family!
You can purchase Polygamy's Rights and Wrongs by Gillian Calder and Lori B. Beaman by clicking on the book's title. I am ordering it right now!




