Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Montreal Community Clean-Up

From Eric Jarvis

I thought you would like to hear about another of Cathy's community projects. She organized an Interfaith cleanup of an inner city park, and it was a great success! Her co-organizers were predicting 50 people would come to the event, but more than 200 participated, the numbers swollen by LDS from around the stake. We were assisted by a smattering of others: Jews from a local synagogue, members of the Christian-Jewish Dialogue of Montreal, members of a local (Filipino) Catholic congregation, members of a peace group in Montreal, and even a small Muslim delegation. We scoured the park in less than two hours and miraculously the rain held off long enough to permit a relatively dry event. Even Mark Garneau gave some opening remarks and everyone that participated wants to have another event like this. Thank you, Cathy, for organizing this community event!

A Baby Boy

Richard and I had our 18-20 week ultrasound yesterday, and we found out that the lovely little creature in my stomach is a boy! And a very healthy looking boy at that. No markers for any problems, and all his parts in the right places.




Richard says that this picture proves that he'll be a back flip champion. I'm still amazed at his flexibility!

His overall length is about 26 cm (almost the length of a ruler) right now, but he spends most of his time curled up like this playing with his toes.

We had thought this was 19 weeks and 4 days, but according to his measurements it was 19 weeks and 6 days, making today officially the halfway point. His arms and legs actually measured closer to 21 weeks, but I'm sure that's just because he's going to be tall like his dad.

During one of his breaks from kicking my very full bladder (I guess it was taking up his personal space) we got a sweet picture of his tiny foot. It's about 3cm long right now (just over an inch).

I hadn't realized how enamored I would be with this little guy, but I could just look at these pictures of him for hours and never get bored. I thought I understood how much I would just adore this little creature, but it turns out that reality is something altogether different.

This is my favorite picture. It shows his nose, lips and chin. If you tilt your head to the left its a little easier to make it out. I just love the glimpse into what our little boy looks like.

I think for both Richard and I, the best part of the ultrasound was the huge yawn the baby let out at the very end. It was like he was working very hard to make sure we got all the good angles and was ready for a nap. It was the sweetest thing.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Another Spring Day

I was cleaning up the front gardening bed so that we could plant strawberries along the south and west side of that space.  From the corner of the brim of my hat, I kept seeing a  robin swooping into my peripheral vision.  I put down my trowel to see what was going on.  She was flying in and out of a  nest with the drainpipe meets the porch.  Since she had been carrying something in her mouth, I was hoping to see chick and stopped to get a step ladder to see what was going on in the nest.  The centre was a beautiful shiny chocolate brown colour, the mud still glistening.  I forgot to get David up there to look until the next day, by which time soft pieces of dry grasses lined the nest.  I left the ladder there so that she can get used to it in the environment, since we are going to be going up and down those steps a lot of time, watching first for eggs and then for chicks.

David and his mom are learning to practise behaviour regulation and they took along their behavioural therapist on one of their trips involved going to get him new clothes.  Buying new clothes is not a problem for David alone.  The claustrophobia of a changing room, the task to find the right waist size, the problem of too many choices and too few definite ideas about what a person wants had him dropping to the floor a number of times.  Shopping is not easy on the child or the mother in perfect situations, which this was not.

David is old enough to use the male changing room at Zellers.  Right outside the door are the men’s hats.  David didn’t care about the clothes being brought into the changes room, but he did care about and a wide brimmed, under-the-chin-chorded, man’s hat with an army camouflage pattern is the product that he spotted on his own.  Since the hat is only in men’s sizes the circumference of the hat is 3 inches too wide for him.  He gets the looks when he walks down the street.  He loves the hat and is oblivious to social cues so everything is copacetic when he wears that hat.

Cutting out recipes.  That is one of my long-time my hobbies.  Recipes from the Calgary Herald, the Glob and Mail, me and Canadian Living Magazine.  The hobby expanded when I could find recipes on the internet, and even better when Bicks or Epicurious.com would send recipes to me with any work on my part at ferreting them out.  I have saved the recipes in designated drawers in my kitchen, in cardboard boxes to be looked at on some later date.  I have collected them in binders, determining to categorize them at a later date.  I don’t have to do anything with all of this paperwork – just keep it as a project should I run out of other things to do. Since I have been here with Bonnie we found another fabulous way to explore this cooking hobby. And the exploration requires no paperwork.  Vegetables like the butternut squash come with small stickers that carry full cooking instructions.  Just pick up the squash, read the instructions, cook it, and throw the sticker away.  To add to that,  I couldn’t find a cheesecake recipe in all of my recipe collections, but while the cream cheese was coming up to room termperature and I was searching through books of recipes, my eyes fell on the Philly box which promised that inside was “our classic cream cheese recipe” was on the inside.  No more clipping recipes or printing them from the internet from me.  From now on, straight from the instructions on the sticker or the recipe on the box for me to the oven for me.


David is making a new fort. The fort is down in the Skunk Cabbage Reach of the Campbell Spring.  David’s helpers are out in full force:  Papa, Mama and grandmother, all down there with their clippers, their wheelbarrows and the spades and shovels.  Bonnie and Arta even leave other work since fixing up that walk is more fun than another other work.  There are sticks, leaves, stones, an old culvert buried so long ago that roots have ground around and through it.  All of that came out in the 14 wheel barrows of slash that came out of the3re.  It is so much fun that we just can’t wait until someone comes in there with a chain saw to take out what we can’t get at.  In fact we could wait and we discovered the way for two women to pull out a fallen tree that was at least 16 feet long.  We wondered if we were crossing the fineline between clean-up and fighting mother nature.  All it took was moving saplings out of the crotch of limbs shaped like a v off of the trunk, angling it between the new first that were growing.  One woman at the top.  On in the middle, coordinating efforts, ... one, two three, heave.

Joaquim asked if we were going to build an auspicious entrance, an arch with a some words above it.  Tremble, all ye who enter here, or as David says, “Enter here if ask people in white house”.

A Spring Day

This was a three part day for me: first weeding the front bed so that we can plant this year’s new  strawberry plants.  We only had one visitor to the house: the census taker, trying to pick up packages of census he had not received.  “No, while you may not have received it yet, I know my husband has mailed it in.  He is very conscientious.  He would not have missed a deadline.  You can trust in him to be prompt.”  She went on and on extolling his virtues and in between accolades about Joaquim, she asked him where he lived and why he was doing this census.  Mr. Small said, “I retired five years ago, to Canoe and thought this might keep me busy but I am finding it is not lucrative.”

“But you are seeing all of the homes built in your community.”

The ones off in the woods at the end of a 2 mile walk, with a locked gate and a dog barking make me nervous.  I am afraid I have run .  I am afraid I have run into a grow up”, I heard him say and I knitted my brows.  “Oh, a grow-op,” said Bonnie.  “That would make me nervous as well.”

As the man left, I said, “That is an interesting job.” 

“Yes,” said Bonnie.  “He sees a lot.  I just wish he hadn’t drive up while I was inside the garage its door wide open, getting into my out door work clothes.”

The second part of my day was then a work party with Joaquim, trying to clean up the slash around the south end of the garden.  One of the logs he tossed in the wheelbarrow had been the home for a colony of red ants.  Now they were crawling over the bucket of the wheelbarrow en masse.  Next he found a bug the shape of a rhomboid, its out casing a beautiful green fuchsia colour with chocolate brown markings.  I picked it up and put it on different colours of trash – it was perfectly camaflouged wherever I place it.  “Do you know the name of that bug?”, asked Joaquim.  “No.  I need to buy a bug book.”

He went on, “Why are we doing all of this work up here.”
“To find a place to plant the corn seeds David bought.  I know.  A lot of work to save seeds that cost $1.99. but some parents will do anything when their child is busily engaged in Science Club.”

The third part of the day was spent cleaning out the brush in the Skunk Cabbage Reach of Campbell Spring.  The job started small, but morphed into 6 wheel barrows of underbrush for the trash pile.  As well, Joaquim pick-axed an old rusted ½ culvert out of the ground.  “Everytime I felt like quitting, I thought, just one more whack of the pick-axe and I will get this out,” and that kept me going until I finally unearthed it.”  We are going to have to rake in the gaping hole that left in the earth.  David spent his time under a cedar tree, one whose long under branch had touch the ground for such a long time that it had re-rooted itself to the nutrient rich soil underneath of it.  The skunk cabbage was was still in flower 10 days ago is now lush and green, its beautiful elephant-eared leaves upright in the stream and along the bank.  David spent his time making a small bridge across the stream whose banks are now overflowing with spring run-off.  “I have on my cousin’s crocks.  My feet are big enough to wear them,” but my feet are so cold I can’t feel them any more,” He changed footwear when he went back to the house, but the trip was mainly to get out of his sopping wet sweats, since he finally took a full fall into the stream.

David is getting bigger.  So big that he can’t ride the lawnmower with Glen anymore.  That news hasn’t been broken to him yet, a telling that will make a sad day for him.  I remember, myself, the day my dad, laying on his back on the floor, telling me that now I was too big to sit on his feet and have him toss me over his head and his head and back.  I remember the longing for that fun, did not diminish as I grew older and watched him do it to successive babies.

We spent a long day outside.  When I came in I said to Bonnie, “Let’s all go to bed hungry tonight.  I am too tired to cook.” 

“Tossing a squash into the oven and frying pork chops is not really cooking,” she said.  “And a piece of the new fresh bread baked today would be sufficient.” We wound down our evening looking at a recipe book called The Brownie Lover’s Bible: 100 Ways to Make Brownies, all the time eating the fudgey brownies she had made from the back of the circular, yellow Fry’s Cocoa tin.  That recipe is not one either of us would make again (I looked in one of my books and I had tried it as well.)  Lucky that we have that book one of my roomers gave to me as a parting gift.  We have 150 more variations to try, though I doubt any of them will match the splendour of the one I find in the Johnson Manna from Heaven cookbook.  The relatives on that side of the family really know how to cook.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

fiddleheads for lunch

fiddlehead fern -- yum!
I am going to BC tomorrow with Wyona and Greg. 

I am going to search the forest and see if I can find some fiddlehead ferns to eat for the reasons listed below.  According to epicurious.com, they taste like a cross between asparagus, green beans and okra.  I will report back as to whether they are used as a first course or as a side dish.

"fiddlehead fern"
A young, edible, tightly coiled fern frond that resembles the spiral end of a violin (fiddle). It is also referred to as ostrich fern  and pohole.  The shoots are in their coiled form for only about 2 weeks before they unfurl into graceful greenery. Fiddlehead ferns are a rich, deep green color and are about 2 inches long and 1 1/2 inches in diameter. They have a flavor akin to an asparagus-green bean-okra cross and a texture that's appealingly chewy. Fiddleheads can be found throughout the eastern half of the United States, ranging from as far south as Virginia north to Canada. They're available in specialty produce markets from April through July, depending on the region. Choose small, firm, brightly colored ferns with no sign of softness or yellowing. Refrigerate, tightly wrapped, for no more than 2 days. Fiddleheads should be washed and the ends trimmed before being briefly cooked by steaming, simmering or sautéing. They may be served cooked as a first course or side dish or used raw in salads. Fiddlehead ferns are a good source of vitamins A and C.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Ezra Garrett Bates -- brave spearman

Hello,

I was with Wyona when she received Trent's phone call announcing the birth of Trent and Jamie's new baby boy, born this morning at about 8 am -- 10 pounds, 10 ounces and 23 inches long.

The baby's name is Ezra (like in the book of the Old Testament) and his second name is Garrett (meaning strength of the spear or brave spearman).

Arta

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Second Try at my new blog...

So... my new blog is rebeccaj63.wordpress.com. And here is my second attempt at my first post there! .... same topic! Women Judges!