Friday, May 11, 2018

Autum Wood Doing the Long Jump

From Moiya

Moiya has been watching Dan and Marina's children, while they have been away.

Here is a picture of Autum doing the long jump at her school track meet.

Some videos are just too good not to share, especially since I have learned how easy it is to upload a little clip like this.

Enjoy 6 second of Autumn.  Thank you for the shoot, Moiya.

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Business Associations -- Part 2

a selfie on top of Mt Tolmie
 ... taken weeks before our class begins ...
the wind is making Rebecca's feather earrings sweep back and forth
I can't keep my hair in my clip.
We are on the second day of class. 

Business Associations, Class 2. 

Rebecca is teaching. 

I am in one of the groups in the class. 

Although I am a visitor to the class, she makes me work as well. I am not sure I like that. 

We are figuring out the how an Income Statement and a Balance Sheet are different. I can read these sheets, but I don’t like to take data out of a problem and make the sheets.


At the top of Mt Tolmie I should be taking
a picture of the 360 degree views.
Instead I am studying what rocks look like
before the ocean begins.
She organizes for everyone to be part of a Hogworth group in the class. Five groups. I may be with the Pets, although I am not sure.  I can't remember anything about Harry Potter's Hogworth.  I hope this won't impact my performance in the class.

Rebecca  makes everyone in the class uncomfortable by having us sit in groups and talk with each other over problems she has distributed. We are all new and don't even know each other's names.  She tries to mitigate our discomfort by playing some cafĂ© jazz music in the background. She believes that most learning occurs in these groups, though she does lecture as well.  That part of the course is a lot of fun.  Ideas from all over the room bouncing off of the walls.

I think the purpose of the music is to make white noise so that the voices of people in the other groups isn’t that clear for us – more like muffled conversations over in a club, over dinner or sharing a drink.

At the end of the class a student comes to her and asks, “What should we read for next week?”

“Ideally as much as you can. If you are overloaded then take care of yourself and don’t read too much. It is early in the term. If you have time, read away.”

“I am not good with open ended assignments like this,” replies the student.

She wants a discrete assignment.

“Then read chapters 2 and 3. If you have time then do one, and four is a thin chapter which will be easy for you.”

“Alright,” the student says and walks away satisfied.

Rebecca has not handout out the kind of syllabus that most students see in most classes.  You know.  Day 1, we do such and such.  Day 2, we do x.  The signal of where we might be in that regular system only comes at the end of the second class where she says, you have probably already noticed that we are talking about sole proprietorships in this class and the last class.

For a student like me, I needed to see that on paper, not "get" it as we are going along.

But to speak to order of the first kind, she has already handed out a an orange paper on which are listed all of the kinds of business, and then how they differ from each other.  What I do "get" is that I had better see how much of that I can put to memory.

I tell Rebecca, I am that student. I need to know exactly what to read for the next class. I want a precise road map. Tell me what to read. I will do it. I need everything in a box with black line around it. Your first answer would have caused some anxiety in me.

Rebecca smiles and says nothing.

We pack up and prepare to go home, me to her house, and she, to London, Ontario for the week-end.

Arta

Thursday, May 10, 2018

Beacon Hill Park, et al

Camas flowers in bloom
in B.C.'s West Kootenay region. (kootenaynativeplants.ca/)

Wyona and Greg were in the parking lot at the port in Victoria, as were we.

She called to see where we were and finally said, raise your hands and we will raise our hands as well.

Rebecca didn’t wait to get the message. She strode ahead, probably having spotted the waving couple before I did.

When the cruise ship lands the people pour off of the boat.

Some take the carriage ride around the centre of town, two beautiful white horses, their feet clooping along the pavement. There were a couple of buses, presumably to take people on tours – maybe to the Buchart gardens. A trolley had some other people on it, going off in the same direction. There were 2 black limos and one white one, waiting for private tour groups.

We drove along the side of the ocean. Wyona said driving would be better for her than walking. A couple of nights ago, Greg and she jived the night away and the next morning, her body was paying for it. So we went to Mile Zero of the Trans Canada high, the spot where Terry Fox began his run. Then we drove through Beacon Hill Park, a place some mistake for the Buchart Gardens, it is so lovely. But Rebecca cautioned us from thinking this way for apparently the Buchart Gardens ends with fireworks in the evening and is so over the top with its display of flowers in every season, that it is well worth taking it in.

We stopped first at Beacon Hill Park, at the petting zoo, even though we had no children with us.

Baby goats are there, so tiny, and so many of them.

Children and parents can feed the goats or brush their fur, or as one woman did, just sat so still that a baby goat leapt up on her back.

The goat pen had in it a peacock with its feathers on display.

Two, then three baby goats tried to nibble on the ends of the feathers on display. When the peacock ruffled its feathers a bit, a couple of the baby goats came in from the back side, trying to eat some of the brilliant colour on the feathers. There was a pea hen in the trees, high above us, nesting. A couple of peacocks were on the roof of the shelter, and done was outside, somewhat ignoring the four of us. I have never been so close to a bird of that magnificence, for so long a time.

Rebecca continued to drive us along the magnificent seawall, telling us about walks she has taken there with her family, spotting at one point where kite-flyers gather because the wind is so spectacular there. Just right for kits.

Rebecca’s regular driving route as she was touristing for us was interrupted with road repair, so she wove us through the side streets where we admired the lawns, the massive red flowers on the rhododendrons, the delicate azaleas, the blue camas beneath the garry oak, the sight of the water rolling in from the ocean.

Rebecca drove us to the top of Mt Tolmie, after first driving by her house. Wyona asked for the car to stop for there was a deer only a few feet to the side of us. Usually the animals are skittish but Wyona is an animal whisperer and this deer offered many closeup for her photographing pleasure. This stop was right outside of Rebecca’s house, but we didn’t go in – just doing a drive-by for Greg.

At the the top of Mt Tolmie we got out to see that 360 degree view of the world, the mountains in Canada, the mountains in Washington, the small uninhabited islands in the ocean. Rebecca also narrates a story of indigenous peoples on this spot, many of them, historically occupying this land, going back as far as 20,000 years. I always listen carefully for when she talks, she drops another piece of the puzzle of indigenous occupation that I have probably missed.

The homeless are apparent downtown, men and women along the beautiful green meridian of the road, just waking, rolling up their blankets and putting whatever they own back in the shopping carts that they will push all day.

We stopped for a Dr’s appointment for Rebecca. She has been waiting for this appointment for a year. She has a cycst on her finger which she pokes to relieve the pressure. Her Dr told her, no more poking yourself with a needle, which advice she also got from the specialist. My guess is that Rebecca will find a way to take care of this, more suited to medical practise. And then wait her turn in the cue for an operation to come up for her.

Wyona walking beside a peacock at the petting zoo.
While we were waiting for Rebecca’s appointment, really waiting in the hall for the Drs locked office to open, Wyona got a call from her Dr. in Calgary.

Just saying, why not get these appointments over at the same time.

We dropped Wyona and Greg off downtown, Rebecca telling them to stand at a bus stop and ask any driver how to get back to Ogden Point where the Celebrity was docked. Wyona and Greg had laughingly said that it would be nice to go back on the ship’s shuttle.

When they hopped out of the car at red light and got to the sidewalk, we were driving away, but could see Wyona and Greg laughing and calling out to us, “Look, the shuttle.”

Yes, it was just across the road.

As Rebecca said, “Odd when these things line up, as though they are supposed to happen.

Rebecca asked me the best parts of the tour:

1. The forecast was for rain, but the clouds opened up and gave us a beautiful sunny day. Not even a spit of rain. A day that no one could ask for better.

2. I like hearing Greg say that he was enjoying the personalized tour. The one that took us through side streets and into the little boroughs: Oak Bay and Sanich, etc., instead of to the parliament buildings. I liked hearing he enjoyed those little coves.

3. Wyona brought brunch for us, taking cae of all of our chocolate croissant or banana bread needs, plus drinks for all. As well she distributred Maui Caramacs (chocolate, creamy caramel and macadamias), Salt Water Taffy with the flavours of Hawaii, and Candy Coated Popcorn with Macadamia nuts. She brought the theme of Hawaii home to us.

4. I liked seeing Greg and Wyona get out of the car in downtown Victoria, and then stand on the sidewalk, the intrepid travellers finding their own way back to the ship. They have done that job with more difficulty when they don’t speak the language. The English is easy here – often a British accent, though the guy at the Passport Office last week had a definite French Canadian accent. I had forgotten until then, that we do things in two languages since we never hear the second language here on the other side of the world.

5. I liked Rebecca’s account of the land, how those beautiful blue camas flowers have underneath them bulbs that have been traded up and down the coast for 10,000’s of years. 
And she knows how they have to be cooked, slowly for 2 days until they are edible. And how they can sustain people through the winter. Just a wonderful story about how the indigenous people lived off of the land.

6. Rebecca told us that when she picks up visitors to Victoria for conferences, she gives them a similar tour, but has them stop by the ocean where she buys frozen fish which can then be fed to the seals. I have heard her talk about this many times, but haven’t tried it myself.

Maybe next time.

Arta

From Lethbridge: the extra-ordinary wonderness of the life of a grandmother

From Moiya 

Since I am watching my grandchildren in Lethbridge, I will miss being there in Victoria when Wyona gets off of the cruise boat and the two of you, Arta,  get together.

I went to the track meet for Autumn¹s school yesterday.

It was cold and after lunch, I sent David home with Pepper and OscarŠ too.

It was cold and it was raining by then.

Autumn got:
1st in Shot Put,Discus, and Long Jump. 
2nd in 100 M dash, 200 M dash 
4th in 800 M run

And her high jump got cancelled because of the rain.

It was fun to be back at the track meet.

It brought back so many memories.

No one got sun stroke though. :-)

We are going to head home tomorrow.

Dan and Marina get back to Lethbridge at about 2 AM Friday morning.

Must get these kids off to school now.

Moiya

A Perfect Life

Today, during my acupuncture appointment, I told Dr. Lam that I am having the perfect life: good health, warm family relationships, and I get to take courses at the university. At that he opened his eyes a bit wider. At that everyone I tell raises their eyebrows or looks questionly at me. I am hoping it is in wonderment that I would have the energy to do that. The classes are where I find much of my energy, the quiet energy that comes from generous teachers who point in directions I wouldn’t have thought to journey.

"Taking back the economy is not a job for a loner.
The job calls for concerted actioin by many"
Rebecca told me that I can sit in on her Business Associations Class.

Having finished the first 3 hour lecture, I find myself speeding down the road of the history of business (perhaps 2,000 years of documented history), and well into the problems of financing in a sole proprietorship.

Plus, for the class, I am reading Take Back the Economy by J.K. Gibson-Graham Jenny Cameron and Stephen Healy.

I have finished Chapter 1 but I am complaining to Rebecca that I am already behind in my reading. She reminded me that the book is to take all semester, not to be read before the second class starts.

 “Slow down. There is no rush.”

 I do have class notes to review but all of this is fun at my age. The only regret would be not having 40 years ahead of me for business practice. I do celebrate the 40 years behind me of business practice, where I did as she tells her group happens in business, people get out doing it and then go for help when they need help or new directions to travel.

Latte's at Lunch
Look at the beautiful design
on the top of that latte.

As much as I loved my water at lunch
I couldn't help but admire
the design on the Rebecca's drink.
I had lunch at the grad lounge where the menu offers something for everyone.

Rebecca and I ate Deconstructed Sushi with salmon.

Oh yum to living on the west coast.

Jess and Renee joined us.

Or that would be we joined them later. A student came to see Rebecca about her exam marks. They got the exam from the main office, and then sat down to go over every question, one by one.

Smart student.

Not that Rebecca changed the mark. Smart that the student went to learn more about the process of marking exams and how she can deliver different answers.  That student had one hour of one-on-one with the teacher explaining exam strategy.  I bow to the student.

Rebecca and I closed the day by shopping at Fairways. 

There is no problem finding bok choy on the shelves, as requested by Alex, the only person in the family who sent in a list of what we should buy.

Duncan is a person whose eyes light up when offered a meal of beans.  No problem in fixing that for him.

Rebecca is going to London, Ontario tomorrow for part of the I Testify project.

We will miss her for 3 days. But at this house, there will be a D&D tournament on Saturday with Duncan’s friends, as well as Alex’s birthday celebrated, so she will miss us as well.

What’s not to like about our lives?

Arta

Tuesday, May 8, 2018

The End of a Perfect Day

...the sidewalks strewn with apple blossom for my birthday ...
Photo: Rebeca
At supper last night the discussion turned to food, our likes and our dislikes.

Duncan, for example, is not thrilled with salmon and no matter how beautiful the piece that was cooked for him, he didn't want to eat it.

I remember not liking fish when I was young,

I don't remember that we had it much until we began to spend summers at the Shuswap and have fish that was fresh from the lake.

By then Rebecca was a baby, so I can't say that I learned to like fish when I was young.

We turned to a discussion of fish vs beef, and which is better for you.

I wanted to let the boys know that I do some calorie counting, and stay away from some carbs.  When I go to Costco, I eat the ice cream out of the cone, and toss it in the garbage.  "I hope that is not a waffle cone," said someone.

"No, that is exactly what it is.  I feel not just moral, but one step above, congratulating myself for not consuming those calories."

My morning Steve had decided the thing to do for my birthday was to go to Costco and get that cone.  But at the day lengthened, the long trip to Costco also seemed longer than usual, and in the end, Rebecca, Duncan, Alex and I went to the Dairy Queen.  Rebecca found a litre of ice-cream in the freezer for $4.99.  When the clerk heard we were eating it inside, she offered to pour us a quart that had just come out of the spigot, so that was good for us.  And she provided us with red long handles spoons for our eating pleasure. 

I think I am a faster eater, for I go full on the ice-cream and Rebecca said she needed 3 more bites.  Next time I am giving her a 5 minute start on the ice cream before I dig in.  I have both desire and capacity to eat it all.

Alex and Duncan had some form of blizzard -- good for them. 

A good time was had by all.

Kairos Blanket


From Miranda

The Kairos Blanket Exerise was run through Michael's school. The teachers were encouraged to join, and parents were invited to sign up. There were only 5 parents there, everyone else was staff at the school (and a couple of staff from other schools that were friends of the staff members attending). 

To start, Randy introduced himself in Blackfoot then had us all say hello and introduce ourselves in Blackfoot. Oki is hello. This is a bit of the language as I know it is easier to hear the words than to try and sound things out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HwOB_rq7xEI

The elder then said a prayer to creator to guide us through the exercise in the spirit of love and togetherness.

There are several blankets on the floor, and everyone receives scrolls. They also pass out dolls, bison, colored index cards, some trading goods, and then everyone is asked to find a spot on a blanket. The "Colonizers" start out friendly, shaking hands and sharing things. They take a little bit of land around the edges, but everything still feels comfortable. They start giving out blankets to the people who have no goods. And then people start dying. People are stripped of their status so they have to stand nearby on the floor. People go to residential schools, and are displaced to unfamiliar areas. The babies get taken from parents and put alone on a blanket.  By the end, a few people are standing, mostly alone and with little space left.

It's well set up so that you really feel like you can't do much to keep your space and resources. The amount of blanket space is reduced slowly, and the colonizers give you good reasons to share your land with them, at first. Your rights are slowly stripped away and you lose everything. And when you are feeling raw and drained by the end of the exercise, Randy shared his personal experiences in Residential Schools and TB Sanitariums.  

To debrief, there is a sharing circle. Everyone has a chance to comment on what rocked them, what sticks out and what they want to leave with (Rock, Stick and Leaf). There were very few people who could make it through without tears. It was a lot of sitting in discomfort.

So that is my brief recap of it. It was a very powerful empathetic experience. I really recommend it to anyone who is able to attend.

Miranda

P.S. Please feel free to share any of this. I just noticed I was responding just to you